Published May 31, 2023, 6:21 p.m. by Bethany
It's been a few years since I had a chat with Gail Vaz Oxlade, so I hopped on a call today with her to talk money & life
We touch on why she quit her TV shows Money Moron, Princess and "till debt do us part.
Financial literacy month in Canada was an interesting topic too.
We also talk about why people procrastinate when it comes to paying off debt, her thoughts on payday loans, and her newest project called www.MyMoneyMyChoices.com
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all right what is up everybody I am on
with Gayle Pru Gayle bass Oxley the
Gayle stirrer okay we're going to have a
chat open open chat about muddy personal
finance life whatever comes up I wanted
to catch up with Gayle to see what she's
been up to and talk about some of the
projects that she's working on the stuff
that's really blowing back her hair get
some opinions on financial literacy and
money in general and I actually have a
few questions for you on my Facebook
page as some of my audience asked
because I mentioned that I was going to
be having to chat with you today so um
let's talk about Financial Literacy
Month in Canada like asking me this
question cuz you saw me go on the
internet last night and on Twitter and
do it oh yeah and the last time we
talked that was what we talked about
pretty much for the whole time was
financial literacy week at that time um
anyway I've got a few opinions about it
what it like this is Financial Literacy
Month in Canada you know the
government's you know put this
conference together I did a little bit
of googling to see what would come up
when I typed in those keywords and just
to kind of set the tone I found a page
that came up on number one result which
was a Facebook page and taking us how
many likes it's got how many people
actually give a damn about financial
literacy month on Facebook the number
two traffic website in Canada swell 662
600 650 people give a damn about it so
the thing is is that the reason why
nobody cares about it is that we've been
listening to people go bla bla bla bla
bla bla
for so long and nothing has happened
Richard nothing has happened
they shut Commission's they said people
across the country they're still doing
it but nobody is actually putting a plan
in place that people can see as a
concrete road map to get them to where
they need to be and the thing is that
it's all very well and good
deal with the knowledge aspect of
financial literacy but financial
literacy isn't just about knowing
financial literacy is actually more
about doing cuz do I really have to tell
you that you should not be carrying a
balance on your credit card
do I really have to say you have to save
some money or do people already know
that and it just got frickin doing it
yeah you know what um I was thinking
this morning that as as I was driving in
because I knew that we're gonna hop on
this call I was thinking we could start
and end this call with one piece of
advice as simple as spend less than what
you earn yes
save money every month and that's it
then you're good now therefore there are
four there are four others to march up
there's then listen you are safe
something if you have that get it paid
off yeah and mitigate your risks okay
let's talk about mitigating your risks
sure because what happens is a lot of
people are doing almost everything right
you know they've got some savings to the
side and there may be participating
their company pension plan they're
living on their income they're not
carrying any credit card debt and then
they use their job and they're screwed
right because what are they going to do
now they're going to tap their
retirement savings now yeah because it's
wiped that out they're gonna get sick it
gets sick for three or four months
that's all it takes and they're white
and that's me when I scream in EHR is do
you need an emergency fund no alignment
right it doesn't count and red Cardinals
down Arthur huh ah and you need to have
some of the right kind of insurance in
place just in case I see a lot of tremor
yeah people like to think of insurance
as some sort of ploy to rob you of your
money okay okay and I think to myself
okay and go teacher but then don't whine
when your life falls down around your
ears and you don't have any money to
keep your roof over your minute what do
you think about insurance that's offered
on like credit card insurance just
haha go talking about that because I
have an opinion on that too
yeah first of all if you buy creditor
insurance mortgage life insurance you're
not actually buying insurance you're
buying the idea of insurance because the
reality is is that none of those plans
are approved until you make a claim and
so you may have been paying premiums for
a few months or a few years or a lot of
years
I'll need to put a claiming to find out
that oh no you can't make a claim on
this because you had a pre-existing
condition so you know not only that but
it's 2 to 3 times more expensive than
buying term insurance and so why do
financial institutions get away with
selling this product and why does our
financial literacy commissioner think
that it's ok to rest financially
strictly in the hands of someone who's
so really just from you yeah well
they've got a vested interest in selling
you those products you know they've run
out of stuff to sell so they go I get
notices you know a few times a year from
you know the banks that I deal with and
they're always are offering some new
invented product because they're
probably figuring out some way to return
more value to shareholders and the best
one that came up recently was they were
offering me insurance on my line of
credit which was zero by the way and has
been zero forever but they wanted me to
take on his policy for I don't know it
was like twelve bucks a month and the
first thing that I started doing when I
get stuff like that is I look at the
fine print because you know that's where
the details are at and one of the things
that it said was oh yeah we'll pay it
out provided that your average balance
carry none of your on your line of
credit is within 90% of what has been
for the last I think 24 months so let's
take a scenario here our house I have a
job I need to put a new roof on my house
and you know roof tiles costs I don't
know
nine thousand dollars do my roof all of
a sudden my line of credit balance has
gone up by nine thousand dollars during
that term three months later I lose my
job
and I want to make a claim to you know
carry on the payments I think they cover
me
yep no exactly so this is the thing is
that people first of all they don't want
to read the fine print because we have
grown up as a society getting
notifications on almost every webpage we
go to saying read this then say accept
no you just want to get to what you're
going to you don't really care okay
please see accept and people have come
to see fine print that comes with
financial products in much the same way
to say crap cuz there's nothing you can
do about you know if you want it you
have to say yes yeah and all it is is
twelve bucks here eight dollars there
thirteen dollars there eighteen dollars
here it just adds up in it and you think
you're covered but you're really hardly
ever covered for anything so one of the
things that's part of the my money my
choices program is to find ways to
reduce what you're spending and I'm not
asking people to reduce a lot by a lot I
say you know by the time you get to
level ten
you're supposed to decrease your debt I
have to decrease it at my five percent
decrease your spending by point five
percent okay
and so in each level where you have to
decrease your spending a little bit more
then what you're doing is you're going
back and looking at where your money is
going and pretty so maybe you decide
that the magazine subscriptions you pass
of the last three years of the magazine
just piled up for the products not much
to you
or maybe you decided that having premium
cable since you never watch Keating
anyway it's kind of a wasted but or
maybe you decide that that she's a
papaya on yourself on was great ride
you're on the road working but now that
you're no longer on the road it's not a
different job you should
ah just we look at what who's oak I have
it every single month and fix it I'm
gonna put you in the hot seat right now
and tell me what you've cut from your
monthly expenses in the last year that's
made a debt that's made a difference uh
I don't have to cut anything Richard
because I have enough money I'm gonna go
to my cash flow to look at that hold on
cuz I have a cash flow budget my
property taxes and electricity and heat
all went up so did my host insurance oh
I know what I got kind of kids they move
regimented right so my son is keeping
this year off to supposedly work he
selected any companies to supposedly
work and then he's going to go to school
in September so his allowance went away
and my daughter moved to the city so oh
I can't wait excellent
oh yeah and I'll share a little you know
tidbit that I did I I cut my cable about
a year and a half ago and I haven't
missed it I do not have cable
I have internet service to my house I
can watch Netflix there's all kinds of
streaming stuff that's available on the
internet you know there's great content
on youtube if you want to learn
something and I haven't missed it you
know the thing that really pissed me off
about cable is I was paying to receive
stuff on my TV and then in an hour show
I would get twenty minutes of valuable
content the rest of it was marketers try
to prey on my weaknesses to sell me crap
well interestingly enough when Alex went
to universities this was five years ago
I cut the cable almost immediately and
it all came about because my box broke
and when I called them up and said my
box broken and you know the market I was
pickable accepted all this month ago
and they said okay but that's a $20
charge
you're gonna charge me $20 who reads my
Center dollar-a-month service and they
sell those are the rules and I said if
in credit I don't need it anymore and I
just save me an exit sure oh but the
reality is that I don't watch television
when your shoulder I want to watch her
on anyway I did that yeah right so I
know by my TV this stuff shows I
actually wonder why I buy them on iTunes
screening them from an applicator i
watching my necklace done problem solved
all right I want to talk a little bit
more about this Financial Literacy Month
thing um I was I was looking at the
government page yeah at who was you know
going to be there who the sponsors are
and I don't think we need to talk about
the sponsors because anybody can find
out who they are you know learn more
about that I didn't recognize anybody's
face with the exception of Preet
Banerjee on that list of influencers in
that area and I actually did a search on
Twitter with the hashtag Finance lit
conf yeah and I was really disappointed
in the people that were at the
conference the stuff they were talking
about you for me like you know here's a
picture of our bankruptcy booth come
visit it
I don't care do ants do people
struggling with money can't like why
wasn't somebody like you they're
headlining the event I mean I think when
people think about literacy when it
comes to money they're gonna think about
the stuff that you've talked about and
written about in your books right what
your thoughts unfortunately I say things
that are very controversial when it
comes to all those sponsors that they
have yeah you're not very cozy well when
I stand on the stage and I say banks are
money-making corporations the people
behind the counter are sales people and
they lie all the corporate sponsors that
are financial institutions wanted run
screaming from the room right for a
couple of years I was a BC Canada which
is EBC calendar literacy I was there
fine
New Jersey spokesperson and I retired
from the job because everywhere I went
the TD Bank call would mean you had
people in the room to make sure I didn't
see anything that has to gaited because
they were a sponsor on ABC Toyota well
I'm sorry but I'm going to tell the
truth and the fact is that you you own
handed things to clients and Reliance
need to learn to spell them to
themselves and they don't have my
thankful we also don't know half my
understanding of what you're really
mmm-hmm
it's funny because you look at the
sponsor list and the sponsorship
opportunities a platinum sponsors
$35,000 so they're not going to want
somebody on stage saying financial
institutions are going to sell you crap
that you don't need that's right makes
sense
alright um let's move on I want to talk
about my money my choices so what's
really blowing your hair back these days
I mean you got actually you know what
before we do that why did you get out of
TV I left television because we came to
a crossroads with the broadcaster where
for years or years and years I fought to
keep the authenticity in the show I
fought to keep the reality and reality
team and I refused to create the story
was always follow the story so for
example there was they the brunching
company called me up in a panic because
we had given someone a challenge and
they refused to do the challenge and I
said did it get anything they want you
to challenge on camera and they said yes
and they said then we don't have a
problem that's actually a pushback
what's real Terry that they made so long
absolutely but their approach problem is
not absolute panic because then we won't
have anything check out on and it was
always try clear carbonated everything
helps to do check
okay and people call it a horse and
worse and what unfortunately the paper
that I had worked with your early years
of a relatively poor or left leaving
that stuff that tends to float to rise
to the top and be for the better Louis
have you read with Jessica Richard I
swear when I told my executives at my
broadcast era that I was doing a TED
talk they looked at me like assume it
what did that mean you can only take so
much stupid okay well when they started
interfering with the show in significant
ways that I could no longer control I
are intelligent like we're just like
wait I'm something else on television as
I as I've had any discipline contractor
if I work on television or else I will
be tweaking my contract I can retire
what good for you
all right so let's talk about what's
really blowing your hair back these days
and you're excited about your doing my
money my choices why did you why did you
set it up what's it all about
okay so my money my choices is a website
my money my tracers calm that has a road
map on it with a series of levels that
you can complete them as you complete
each level you build the infrastructure
for a strong financial life so in level
one you have to do the most work it's
the hardest level okay and if you can
get to level one find the rest of its
crew breeze but you have to have some
tenacity and some gumption to get
through level one so how did you are
spending analysis you have to make a
budget you have to do a debt repayment
plan and you have to make your first
never escape and those things requires
our environments and effort and so on
intersection that lots of people don't
want to do if I know what I'm spending
on
then I have to agree how the fact that
it's too much so I don't want to know
but if you are different entity control
this is where you start and you know
through the various levels you are taken
from very very basics of Kashmir
management right through your current
estate planning you all the pieces that
need to be in place you have to have
some financial foundation is it an
online course with a graduation like
what are the components of it like is
there an end goal well well multum
itleave when you get to the end we don't
get refers well there's no race hey this
is our life process being financial of
selfless come something you do this week
renessa life so wait waiting get to the
final level is level 23 you will be
making your master amar speak
contributions he FST contributions
eliminated eliminated all your consumer
debt you'll be using very credit card
and PR balance therefore never send a
monkey or mortgage free will in limited
to your student deck and you I built on
all my registered investment portfolio
so so you know in other words you you
are a rock solid but but not the
achievement of level 23 that's important
it's being in the ropes xx important
because for instance that first met
Freud statement they could do it level
more we will include every six months
and in reviewed every six months three
point kids education work Rock Redis
because there is no motive reaching in
the other not everybody can you know you
know yet all together all right
37 so you know what are you going to do
is we want to be underpowered if you
want to be working towards a goal got it
and how long does it take the average
person to achieve level 23 I had no idea
I expect Forster goodnight
he took me on tour I would benefit no
fifty okay to get there got it and is
there a cost for is it free like how
does it work it's free free and they
would find it at my money my choice is
dot-com no the thing he has that what
what this is is a road map it's what you
have to do it's not how you do it but
there are resources mentioned some of
them are some of them and then I can
have a scheduled stop it doesn't have
agenda got it got it alright um I want
to hop onto a question here actually I
got a couple questions for you because I
put this in front of my audience on our
Facebook page a total that freedom to
see if they had any questions for today
and one came up that was interesting it
said why does the Canadian government
continue to allow places like Money Mart
to exist
I know I know of men who cash their
checks instead of paying child support
payments people avoid paying debt and
I've even heard of money laundering
through these institutions she you know
she goes on for a bit but you get the
general idea like I'm not a fan of
payday loan companies I've never used
them I like if you're borrowing against
your paycheck that's like a sign
basically to say I need help it's
something that has to stop it's that's
that's really digging yourself in a
deeper hole but talk to me about that
what your thoughts
well the fact that she was asked my
question
that's my Kavitha she wants to have a
conversation to the fact that she's
asked the question why does our
government and load these organizations
to exist I don't have the right answer
for that because I am a pole I am a pole
that they exist our use read laws
indicate that they shouldn't be able to
get away our charging between 700 and
1,000 or second you add in all the fees
and yet didn't I pull back because I
mean they they have an advertising LC
array of I think twenty three and a half
percent on the websites now right okay
but then they add in all the fees do you
have to add in all the fees so you know
it's check cash easy and uh you have to
put an application fee in when I did all
the fees explore render got it got it
yeah so a big piece of advice stay away
from payday loans if you're if you're
borrowing against your paycheck that's
that's nothing but a path to deep
trouble well and we don't want people
talk about things like child support or
circumvented by using PD companies you
know nothing morally reprehensible the
man would have a wait together to get
over child support yeah well if they're
going to legislate these these companies
there should be a it should be
prohibited that if you're that if you're
on the child support role and you've got
those obligations you're not allowed to
use the services it they should not be
allowed to cash checks for deadbeat dads
I mean you know it's it's a
straightforward as I it's even worse
than that they're not Emma yeah if
they're not a member of the check
cashing Association of Canada for all
intents and purposes which means that if
I write a check to you today for
services rendered and then find out you
gypped me and I canceled that check stop
payment on that check you
you can still take it to a Money Mart
and cash it they will cash it and then
they will sue me for the money and they
will win interest there a debate mcquigg
interesting o Canada we stand on guard I
have another question for you okay
people in credit card debt they tend to
procrastinate and I'm going to use an
example with my own company itself
because people go online they look for
help they find us they'll fill out a
form that says this is their name and
phone number we'll call them and they'll
say yeah I've got debt I need a solution
to it we talked to him about the
solution and they've got let's say
$40,000 in debt today the way to delete
55 thousand before they got you back
well here's the thing you know we offer
the solution we you know we presented to
them we answer their questions we might
spend an hour - on the phone walking
through you know different scenarios and
how it will work and then they sit on it
they don't do anything they don't budge
and then three here's where it gets
better now three or four years later
because you know I've been a business
for ten years now I've got a database
three or four years later we get another
enquiry from the exact same person same
name some email address and phone number
and on the drop down where it says how
much debt do you have it's now $80,000
why do you think people procrastinate on
something as important as personal
finance like this is this is probably
one of the most important things people
need to get in life is how to manage
money nevermind algebra or you know on a
balance of probabilities if I'm in that
room over there across the road how many
people will be between the ages of 18
and 24 and of an ethnic descent from
Africa why like why is it that there
isn't enough emphasis from us as a
society us as people I mean you talk to
a lot of people way more than I have
ever so I want to get your insight on
this but why do people procrastinate on
debt
okay so when you look at the behavioral
finance field and you look at just whole
whack we are you realize that there are
things driving our behavior that have
nothing to do with reased and whatsoever
okay the number one reason people will
not do a spending analysis is they don't
want to change their behavior so if I do
this thing Gail's telling me about is
spending analysis thing and I find out
that I am wasting well 12 percent of my
income on a rubbish a my repairs to stop
doing that generally the answer is no I
want to keep doing what I've always
thought I just want a different outcome
I want to keep doing what I've always
done and I want the debt to go away by
magic hold on a sec I have a magic wand
here somewhere let me get it yeah well
you know like like it's it it just stars
me I mean it frustrates me as an
entrepreneur to see these people that
that carry this credit card debt that
don't want it like it's like you're on
this merry go around going round around
in circles going nowhere
well the definition of insanity is doing
the same freaking thing over and over
again expecting a different result and
they keep you know oh well I'll just pay
this or maybe I can pay that or I'll
take a cash advance paid over here and
you know I'll see if I can win the
lottery in five years I don't know what
the thinking is sometimes but they just
procrastinate and there's got to be
something missing I mean I don't know if
it see an element of humanity if it's
something in the schooling system with
finet like real financial literacy like
here's how money works guys yes well the
thing is is that you can't put it into
schools because there's nowhere to put
it into the high school curricula
there's one spot depending on the
province you're in and it's in you could
replace great 10 careers with a
financial interest of course but nowhere
else can you put it because nowhere else
will you give up a required subject in
order to get into the curriculum because
kids string it so they get to take a
lots of different things right so that's
the first thing so all those people are
saying let's put it in the
and all those skills that are saying
they're putting it into the curriculum
all they have to do is mention the word
money in a line and they think they've
address the financial electricity issue
okay so we make this maths own as some
that includes dollars and cents and look
with put financial literacy into the
curriculum I swear that's what they're
doing okay it's not a real learning okay
so that's the first thing the second
thing is is that we have to come to an
understanding that how we behave it was
largely influenced by what we hold is
important so if what we hold important
is keeping up with the hospice that
you'll see on television then we will go
into debt to renovate our houses so the
winner friends and family come over they
all go you are because they can see the
marble and granite and they can't and
the debt isn't that what drives the
economy though in Canada well that's
what they would have us believe but the
fingers and I don't actually keep this
room I think that if what we're doing is
driving the economy on the backs of
individuals who are sacrificing their
own financial pictures that eventually
that has to combine either it's running
in the ass because what are we gonna do
for all those retiring comedian I mean I
am highest tier year of births in the
river generation I think I got to buy I
am 55 years old up worry what are they
gonna do when my cohort gets to
subscribe has repaid off their mortgages
have a thinkin on lines of credit and
credit card debt and don't have enough
in retirement CDs at one point already
but this is already can you in any rule
this is not that far friction okay okay
what then does not ricotta me do I think
we're heading for a bit of a train wreck
you know I'll be honest with you we've
got um we've got a huge demographic in
our database and our average clients 44
years old
okay and they have about 37 thousand
dollars in credit card debt
I think it's 4.1 cards last time I
checked
so people people in your boomer age that
are going to be retiring they're
carrying the debt I think they feel a
moral obligation to the credit card
companies I think they feel like they
have a right to earn 20% interest or
28.8% interest or whatever it is that
they're paying because they gave me the
credit card and I bought this stuff and
I should pay it off and off they go but
I think you're right I think we're
probably heading for a bit of a train
wreck in a few years when these people
retire and they leave the workforce
either that or they're going to stay in
and keep working because they haven't
paid off the mortgage and they don't
have retirement savings but it's a bit
of a mess you're right well well then
people will say things to me like well
well the credit card companies wouldn't
give me this much credit if they knew
they were going to have to take a right
Tower bifur of course people are rich
business of making money so you say that
they're missing the business and I say
to them make their money what wasn't it
on that corner you've already paid for
twice in terms of the payment you had
made so if they have to write out the
rest in your ear and they're writing off
there's no real money in there well we
could go on for another half hour so on
this um any last closing points you know
you know nobody is really in responsible
or get in the can opener out in opening
of your skull or pouring what you need
to note and financially literate that is
really her job and the resources exist I
know cuz I ruin a lot of them okay so
you can't tell me you don't know how to
get out of debt if you have read
different forever cuz it tells you how
to do it it tells you how to make a
budget tell you why you have to set
goals and how important are if you
aren't going to do the things that they
naturally take you to where you say you
say you want to be and just are you
whining about okay that's not we're
there
and saying we are worried and pressure
because you're not you're not really
prepared putting in the effort you are
you aren't prepared here to the airport
in my money my choice comm get on the
journey and really girl got one because
everything is laid out there for you
love it
done that's it hey Gail has spoken thank
you very much we'll talk to you next
time
okay okay bye
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